To be a gentleman in the 21st century

It seems to me that nowadays for men it is difficult to be gentlemen, times are such that something positive can be changed in something negative. Many women nowadays have disowned from men who treat them with high culture and respect, because most people have a very relaxed attitude towards each other. A man opening a car door in front of a woman or any other door and passing it in front in a passage, a man paying not only for himself but also for his companion, a man kissing a woman in a hand, a man giving place in bus or a train. Such behaviors are now rarer, because firstly women have become weaned from such behaviors on the part of men and if a man behaves like this, then the woman feels self-conscious and does not know how to behave and how to respond to such gestures. Secondly, many women are feminists who behave this kind of behavior on the part of men as sexist and negatively react to it, for many men from fear that they may be negatively received and tugged for their cultural gestures stop using them in everyday life and consequently completely about them they forget. Personally, I happened to be kissed by a man several times and I must admit that it was very nice on the one hand, but on the other hand it was embarrassing because I’m not used to such behavior from part of men, today only a few men kiss a woman in hand. A lot depends from raising at home, on the environment in which we are brought up, what kind of example for everyday life, but a lot also depends on the environment in which we function on a daily basis, with what people we have contact with. Personally, I regret that we have such a times and that there are little gentlemen on this world today.

 

 

 

Wydaje mi się że w dzisiejszych czasach mężczyznom jest trudno być gentelmanami, czasy są takie, że z czegoś pozytywnego można zrobić coś negatywnego. Wiele kobiet w dzisiejszych czasach odzwyczaiło się od mężczyzn, którzy traktują je z wysoką kulturą i szacunkiem, ponieważ większość ludzi ma bardzo wyluzowany stosunek do siebie na wzajem. Mężczyzna otwierający przed kobietą drzwi do samochodu lub jakiekolwiek inne drzwi i przepuszczający ją w przodem w przejściu, mężczyzna płacący nie tylko za siebie ale i za swoją towarzyszkę, mężczyzna całujący kobietę w dłoń, mężczyzna ustępujący miejsca w autobusie lub w pociągu. Takie zachowania dziś są co raz rzadsze, bo po pierwsze kobiety się odzwyczaiły od takich zachowań ze strony mężczyzn i jeżeli facet tak się zachowuje to kobieta czuje się skrępowana i nie wie jak się zachować, jak odpowiedzieć na takie gesty. Po drugie wiele kobiet to feministki które tego typu zachowania ze strony mężczyzn uwarzają za seksistowskie i negatywnie na nie reagują, dla tego wielu mężczyzn w obawie że mogą zostać negatywnie odebrani i zrugani za swoje kulturalne gesty przestają je stosować w życiu codziennym a w konsekwencji całkowicie o nich zapominają. Osobiście kilka razy mi się przytrafiło że zostałam pocałowana w dłoń przez mężczyznę i muszę przyznać że z jednej strony było to bardzo miłe, ale z drugiej krępujące ponieważ nie jestem na co dzień przyzwyczajona do takich zachowań ze strony facetów, dziś tylko nie liczni panowie całują kobietę w dłoń. Wiele zależy od wychowania w domu, od środowiska w jakim się wychowujemy, jaki dostajemy przykład na co dzień, ale dużo też zależy od tego w jakim środowisku funkcjonujemy na co dzień, z jakimi ludżmi mamy styczność. Osobiście bardzo żałuję że mamy takie czasy i że jest co raz mniej gentelmanów.

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